The book by Dr. Jessica E. Metcalfe

Speak Kindly, You’re Listening

Have you ever thought about how you speak to yourself? The words you choose, the tone of voice? It shapes your emotional, mental and physical well-being, and how you show up every day. It’s time to pay attention to it.

Cover of Speak Kindly, You’re Listening by Dr. Jessica Metcalfe
About the book

Navigating your inner voice as a high achiever

A guide for leaders and high achievers to understand what their inner voice is saying and why, so it doesn’t keep them stuck. Each part comes with brain training exercises to do as you read.

Part one

Impostor syndrome

Why high achievers feel like frauds, and how to turn the inner gremlin into an inner cheerleader.

Part two

Perfectionism

Where impossible expectations come from and how to reset them.

Part three

Burnout

What chronic stress does, and the habits that prevent and reverse it.

Part four

Darkness

Finding your way through the hardest times, and the people who help you do it.

Free sample

Try part one’s brain training exercises

Three short videos and their worksheets from the impostor syndrome chapter.

What readers say
“Dr. Jessica Metcalfe’s Speak Kindly, You’re Listening is a treasure trove of wisdom, encouragement and solid guidance. The next must read in personal growth.”
Sara ConnellBestselling author of The Science of Getting Rich for Women
“Every woman will benefit from reading this book. Dr. Metcalfe breaks down how and why we make ourselves miserable, how it’s holding us back, and provides the tangible tools we need.”
Dr. P. RobusReader
Dr. Jessica Metcalfe
The author

Dr. Jessica E. Metcalfe

“As a high achiever myself, I put impossible expectations on myself, developing impostor syndrome trying to be the perfectionist I thought I needed to be. It was only a matter of time until I burnt out and had to face my darkest times.”

Jessica is a dentist, an award-winning international speaker and one of Canada’s Most Powerful Women of 2023. This is her first book. A second, Speak Kindly, They’re Listening, is in the works.

Speaking

Bring the book to your team

Jessica gives a keynote based on the book, on mastering your inner narrative.